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Grief,  Pets

10 Things I’m Thankful for After Pet Loss

Thankful. That is the theme of this week’s post. Preparing for the upcoming Thanksgiving holiday here in the United States, this time of year brings about mixed emotions of joy, nostalgia, and reflection. With that said, I’d like to share my thoughts on what I’m grateful for despite experiencing pet loss.

1.      Thankful for our time together

I’ve had two cats in the past 20-something years; my first love Precious, who lived to be 8 years old and my other pumpkin Dusty who lived to be 13 ½ years old. Although that time was short in retrospect, I’m thankful and grateful for our time together. Our time together reminds me of a line from the movie Steel Magnolias where Julia Robert’s character Shelby tells her mother, “I’d rather have 30 minutes of wonderful than a lifetime of nothing special”. For this reason, I’m so blessed.

2.      Thankful for all the unconditional love

I’m grateful for all the love those two little fur balls gave my family and me. They looked at me like they adored me no matter the situation:  no makeup, frumpy clothes, sneakers, and all. No matter if I was in a bad mood, sick, or totally preoccupied, they were always there by my side.

3.      Thankful our paths even crossed

On this great big Earth, it’s funny how sometimes our circle of friends and acquaintances can be so small and intertwine. Life has a funny way of making things happen you did not expect.  In this instance, I never expected to make a run to the grocery store for my mother and come home with groceries and a Siamese & Calico mixed 6-week-old kitten, who I would later call Dusty. I guess the good Lord had other plans in store for me.

4.      Thankful for a new perspective

Raising pets gives you a new perspective outside of yourself. You are not only thinking of you but of others. Having raised two cats gave me a fresh perspective into what it takes to be a good cat mom and some of the sacrifices you make, such as forgoing extended vacations to ensure they are cared for and looked after. Aside from startup expenses like a litter box, food, and a collar, I gained new insight into what it takes to care for pets. You now have to think of spending extra money on quality food and good veterinary care, so they stay healthy or get quality treatment.

In addition to the basics, you also have to think about holidays and birthdays. What play toys and gifts will they love to have and play around with? Lastly, having pets makes you see that a family is not only made up of people but consists of all those that share a bond and lots of love, including those with paws.

5.      Thankful for making me a better person

Some of the qualities I know I have gained and improved upon since being a cat mom are qualities like increased patience and giving back. I’ve gained the courage to explore more facades of my creativity in writing this blog and painting my art. Thirdly, I have found greater peace and happiness since having raised them in my life. Although I do grieve for them after their passing, I still have an inner sense of gratitude and love I carry with me always.

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6.      Thankful for good friends

Raising two fur balls and then losing them makes you see who your friends are in your time of need and support. I’m grateful to have a great husband, good girlfriends, and a solid support system during difficult times. It’s also great to have friends that can empathize with you and understand and have lived this journey post-pet loss.

7.      Thankful for a compassionate veterinarian

There is nothing more valuable than having good quality medical care. Not only is having a vet a blessing but also a compassionate and caring vet is priceless. One of the moments I remember quite vividly after Dusty passed was receiving a personalized note in the mail and a donation made in Dusty’ s honor to a local animal charity.

Additionally, the professionalism, heartfelt service, and compassion I received when finalizing Dusty’s arrangements were priceless. It made going through that experience a touch less stressful because I knew things would be taken care of and in order.

8.      Thankful for alternative medicine

When my youngest cat Dusty was diagnosed with cancer and I was told it was inoperable, I could not just do nothing before getting a second opinion. In a quest to fight using alternative ways, I discovered natural holistic medicine for pets online.

Although Dusty eventually lost the battle, the natural medicinal remedies I gave her, without a doubt, gave her extended quality of life. Her ability to regain some of her energy in only 3 or 4 days and gain some weight back gave her more quality of life. For this, I am grateful, even if it was for a short time.

9.      Thankful for peace

Both Dusty and Precious brought such a sense of peace and happiness in my life. They both were there by my side during my darkest hours as well as my happiest moments. They shared this journey called life with me including dealing with all the hurdles along the way.

Our pets represent what true unconditional love is about. I’m sure any pet owner can testify to what I’m talking about. They make your bad days a little more bearable and make your happy days much better. Nothing beats a smiling furry face with a purr or a wagging tail.

10. Thankful to know everything comes full circle

Last but not least, I’m not only grateful for the time spent but also glad to know I can do it again. Everything comes full circle. I know when the time is right, and I am ready, I’ll be able to adopt again and share a new bond with another furry friend. It is just a matter of time. 

Conclusion

Those are the 10 Things I’m thankful for after experiencing pet loss. What about you? What are you thankful for this holiday season? Comment and share your thoughts below.

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Originally published November 2018. Updated November 25, 2020